It seems to be a common theme among men of all ages to wonder how women show interest. Most men can never quite figure it out. So I’m going to take a shot at that question, as well as how to interest women (which is the more important part to master in my opinion).
I’ve noticed that a lot of guys tend to over complicate things when trying to figure out how women show interest.
“Well, she played with her hair, but she didn’t touch her neck.”
“She smiled at me but she didn’t keep eye contact very long.”
“Or, she laughed at my jokes but she didn’t touch my arm.”
“So what do you think? Is she interested in me?”
Dude, relax! The fact is, all of those things ARE signs that a woman is showing interest in you, but (and this is a big but) women only show those signs a tiny fraction of the time when they’re interested in a man.
So, while all those signs are ways that women show interest in men, you’ve got to stop letting them dictate how you act around women.
Let’s boil things down and say that if a woman even acknowledges your existence and pays attention to you at all, lets assume she’s “interested”.
Here’s where the important part comes in…
You have to do the things that will create and increase her attraction towards you.
How do you interest women?
You need to do things that women can’t help being attracted to. Things like having strong body language, portraying confidence, taking control, having strong values, and living an interesting life…
Because the fact is, women are uncontrollably attracted to these things. It’s just the way they’re programmed. That’s why some guys (the guys who do these things) seem to get all the women they could every want…